“The third entity is the oneness that shines through when two are in selfless relationship. No longer is the relationship the primary focus; instead it is the oneness that perfumes each moment of it. True relationship not only elicits this oneness, but it is dedicated to it above all else.”  - Adyashanti (from pages 120-123 of "Emptiness Dancing")

The Loving Communication principles reliably access sincere individuals directly to the third entity…to the oneness Adyashanti refers to above. This oneness is a loving-emptiness. - Fred Keyser


“The revelation of Unity, that there is no other, is a realization of the ultimate non-personal nature of all that seems so very personal. This is the number one reason why so many seekers never come completely to rest in the freedom of the Self Absolute.” - Adyashanti  (from pages 120-123 of Emptiness Dancing)

Consistent use of the Loving Communication principles progressively de-personalizes the previously thought-to-be personal issues, leaving one ready for transcendence of the personal altogether. - Fred Keyser


"Courage is not the absence of fear...it’s the decision...in the presence of fear...that something else is more important."


"The goal in marriage is not to think alike - but to think together." - Robert C. Dodds


"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." - George Bernard Shaw


"Happiness is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it and survive."


"When the pickpocket meets the Saint….he sees the pockets."


Hearts open when we clear the shadows.

"It’s time for us to turn to each other - not on each other." - Jesse Jackson


"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." - Rumi


"The one and only way to eliminate an enemy is to make him a friend."


"You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." - Jon Kabat-Zinn


"It is a luxury to be understood." - Ralph Waldo Emerson


"We were born with two ears and one mouth, this ought to tell us something." - Bits and Pieces - 1997


"Coming together is easy; keeping together is progress; working together is success." - Henry Ford


"If you want to make progress - you have to progress thru your problems." - Rob Gilbert, PH. D.


"Listening is a rare happening among human beings. You cannot listen to the word another is speaking if you are preoccupied with your appearance, or with impressing the other, or are trying to decide what you are going to say when the other stops talking, or are debating about whether what is being said is true or relevant or agreeable.
Such matters have their place, but only after listening to the word as the word is being uttered.
Listening is a primitive act of love in which a person gives himself to another’s word, making himself accessible and vulnerable to that word."  - William Stringfellow


"Usually a person relates to another under the tacit assumption that the other shares his view of reality, that indeed there is only one reality." - Paul Watzlawick - Psychologist


"The reason you don’t understand me Edith is because I’m talkin’ to you in English and you’re listening in dingbat!"  - Archie Bunker, All In The Family


"The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer." - Henry David Thoreau


"A good listener is not only popular everywhere - after a while he knows something." - Wilson Mizner



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